A Resolution or a Goal...

I used to think that making a New Year's resolution was dumb because nobody ever keeps them going for more than a month.  Well, I have learned a lot in this past year about personal growth and development.  I think I realized why resolutions rarely work for anyone.


Typically a resolution is a vague statement: "I am going to be healthier."  "I am going to save more money." 

The problem with these resolutions is that there is no way to tell if or when you have reached what you are looking for.  Let me help you set a goal for next year and better yet; help you reach your goal.

Here is one way to start:
1. What do you want?
2. When do you want it?
3. What are you willing to give up to get it?

The most important thing to remember is to be as specific as possible.  Once you answer these questions you can then make it into a goal statement.  Here is an example:

1. I want to increase my savings account by $6,000.
2. I want to do this in a year (by 2013)
3. I will stop eating out for lunch and put 1% more of my paycheck in my savings

This is the statement I would make from these answers.  It is best to put it in the present tense because then when you read it, it is like it has already happened.  Trust me; it makes a difference.

It is January 1, 2013 and I have have added $6,000 to my savings account in the past year.  I did this by being disciplined in my spending by not eating out for lunch and putting 1% more of my paycheck into my savings account.  It feels great to have accomplished this goal!

Here are my tips on how to better improve the likelihood of you accomplishing your goals:
- Write out your goal statement and hang it up somewhere (like your bathroom) and read it out loud every day.
- Break down your long term goal into smaller short terms goals.  This way you don't have to wait a whole year to feel proud of yourself.
- Read your goal to someone you trust so they can keep you accountable and on track.

I really hope this helps you.  If you want more help please ask.  I am here to help you.  Just remember that you can do it and YOU are worth it!  Happy New Year!!